that's a book. He's Just Not That Into You. by some Greg Blah-blah and Liz Tu...something. but that doesn't really matter as if you google it you immediately get the right title. what is important – the quotes below. I believe every woman should read that and think. think hard.
~ He's just not that into you if he's not asking you out. Because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out. Many women have said to me, "Greg, men run the world." Wow. That makes us sound pretty capable. So tell me, why would you think we could be incapable of something as simple as picking up the phone and asking you out? You seem to think at times that we're "too shy" or we "just got out of something." Let me remind you: Men find it very satisfying to get what they want. (Particularly after a difficult day of running the world.) If we want you, we will find you. If you don't think you gave him enough time to notice you, take the time it took you to notice him and divide it by half.
~ I hate to tell you, but that whole "I don't want to ruin the friendship" excuse is a racket. It works so well because it seems so wise. Sex could mess up a friendship. Unfortunately, in the entire history of mankind, that excuse has never ever been used by someone who actually means it. If we're really excited about someone, we can't stop ourselves — we want more. If we're friends with someone and attracted to them, we're going to want to take it further. And please, don't tell me he's just "scared." The only thing he's scared of — and I say this with a lot of love — is how not attracted to you he is.
~ If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that immediately. He won't keep you guessing, because he'll want to make sure you don't get frustrated and go away.
Don't let him trick you into asking him out. When men want you, they do the work. I know it sounds old school, but when men like women, they ask them out.
~ Men, for the most part, like to pursue women. We like not knowing if we can catch you. We feel rewarded when we do. Especially when the chase is a long one. We know there was a sexual revolution. (We loved it.)
~ The "He's Afraid to Get Hurt Again" Excuse: If he were in love with you, he wouldn't be able to help himself from getting involved in a romantic relationship regardless of his fear or past experiences.
~ If he's not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because he's showing up at your new residence to do it in person. Otherwise – HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
~ Dear Waiting at the Altar,
He's right. Why rush? It's only been five years. He's going to know you so much better after ten. And you have all the time in the world, right? You know, in case after ten years he decides he's still not ready. I hate to tell you this, but here's why he feels rushed: He's still not sure you're the one. Yep, my lovely, I know it's hard to hear, but better to hear it now than ten years from now. So you can stay with him and continue to audition for the part of his lucky wife, or you can go find someone who doesn't need a decade or two to realize you're the best thing that ever happened to him.
~ If a guy wants you, he'll go for you. Shocking, isn't it? Women tend to try to rationalize male behavior. We think about it for hours. We tell ourselves that a man can't be with us because he's shy, he doesn't want to ruin the friendship, he's not over his ex, he loves you so much he's afraid to commit, he can't leave his marriage because of the kids even though he and his wife sleep in separate rooms and no longer have sex. Yeah. About that... No.
~ Men know how to use the phone. If he's not calling you, it's because you're not on his mind
~ When a guy is into you, he lets you know it. He calls, he shows up, he wants to meet your friends, he can't keep his eyes or hands off you.
~ Men are not complicated. There are no mixed messages.
~ Don’t let the honeys and the babys fool you. His sweet nothings are exactly that.
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